Hello Readers, I trust we are all doing great? I felt compelled by a friend to educate you on this: BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER because it can be a disorder that brings you down the drain.

I saw a friend in the consulting room who presented with multiple scars on her left forearm; deliberate attempts at self harm. This puts the question what is self harm? Self harm is the deliberate injury to oneself, typically as a manifestation of a psychological or psychiatric disorder.

So let’s move to borderline personality disorder.

Borderline personality disorder is characterized by instability, impulsiveness, chaotic sexuality, suicidal acts, feeling of emptiness and self multilating behaviors. Lots of English words I know!

Borderline personality disorder is thought to be present in about 1-2% of the population and is twice as common in women than men.

Patients with borderline personality disorder stand between the border of neuroses and psychoses. Neuroses is relatively a mild mental illness which is not radically a loss of touch with reality.

People with borderline personality disorder have an extraordinary unstable affect, mood, behavior and issues with self image.

Diagnosis of borderline personality disorder can be made in early adulthood when the patient shows at least five of the criteria discussed below.

1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.

2. A pattern of unstable or intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation. Idealization(this is an action regarding something as perfect than it is in reality) Devaluation on the other hand(reduction or underestimation of the worth or importance of something)

3. Identity disturbance markedly or persistently unstable self image or sense of self.

4. Impulsivity in at least 2 areas that are potentially self driving and binge eating and may include suicidal or self multilating behaviour.

5. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (intense episodic dysphoria, irritability or anxiety usually lasting for a few hours and only rarely for a few days)

6. Chronic feelings of emptiness

7. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger.

8. Transient, stress related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms(significant memory loss of specific times, people and events)

9. Out of body experiences, such as feelings as though you are watching a movie of yourself.

People with borderline personality disorder appear to be in a state of crisis in which mood swings are common. They can become very argumentative at one moment, depressed at the next, and complain of having no feelings.

The behavior of those with Borderline Personality Disorder are highly unpredictable and their achievements are rarely at the level of their abilities. The painful nature of their lives is reflected in repetitive self destructive self such as slashing their wrists and performing other self multilating acts to elicit for help from others, or to express anger, or to numb themselves to overwhelming affect.

Because they feel both dependent and hostile, they have tumultous interpersonal relationships. They can be dependent on those with whom they are close and, when frustrated, can express enormous anger towards their initimate friends.

Patients with borderline personality disorder can not tolerate being alone, and they prefer for a frantic search for companionship which tends to be short lived.

To assuage loneliness, if only for brief periods, they accept a stranger as a friend or behave promiscuously.

They often complain about chronic feelings of emptiness and boredom and a lack of consistent sense of identity(identity diffusion). When pressed, they often complain about how depressed they feel despite the flaring of other affects

Most therapists agree that these patients show ordinary reasoning abilities on structured tests and show deviant processes only on unstructured projective tests.

Functionally, patients with BPD distort their relationships by grouping people into good or bad. They see persons as either nurturing them of security needs and therefore threaten them with abadonment. As a result of this, the good person is idealized and the bad person is devalued. Shifts of allegiance from one person or group to another are frequent.

Borderline PD is fairly stable, patients change little over time but it is said the patients have a high incidence of a major depressive disorder episodes. Diagnosis is usually made before age 40years when patients are attempting to make occupational, marital and other choices and are unable to deal with the normal stages of the life cycle.

Treatment involves psychotherapy to deal with intensive investigation which allows the patient to be attentive to the mental state of him or herself and others. Drugs can be given to control episodes of agitation and aggression.

Seek help if you fall into the category of any of these and trust me, we can make life a better place.

Enjoy your Sunday


6 Comments Add yours

  1. jillboafo says:

    Reblogged this on Just Good Facts and commented:
    Great Blog. Must read. Don’t lack this knowledge

    Liked by 1 person

  2. DrC says:

    Thanks for the information. Wheew. Won’t lie, I have experienced mild versions of some of these symptoms!

    You helping a lot out there! Cheers, Mate.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Eliezer says:

      Charles! I can’t believe you have mile symptoms of these… lmao.. thanks for reading


  3. Loretta says:

    Such an eye opener!👏👏👏👏


    1. Eliezer says:

      Thanks Lorie! ❤️


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